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30 Sure-Fire Signs that Your Partner is Cheating
Please keep in mind that your partner may be doing some of these things (like working out) and they can be totally innocent. Use your gut (and this information) wisely.
1) You are searching for information on this topic. This is a huge sign that your gut is telling you something. Confront your partner immediately, and get the truth. Before it devastates you and your family.
2) Birth control has become a higher priority than before.
3) Your partner stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you, and instead, is overly critical.
4) Is secretive about online activity or certain phone conversations.
5) Is spending more time on hygeine and appearance- keeping his/her nails done, aftershave/perfume, etc..
6) Embarks upon a rigerous workout program.
7) Makes secretive purchases or keeps you from reviewing the finances..
8) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible person you are.)
9) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
10) Is accusatory - people who are doing something wrong think everyone else is too.
11) Raises hypothetical questions such as, "Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at a time?"
12) Buys new underwear.
13) Wedding ring (or other jewelry associated with your relationship) is missing or misplaced more often.
14) Has unexplained scratches or bruises.
15) Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
16) He/she suddenly stops having sex with you.
17) Suddenly wants more sex, more often.
18) Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
19) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
20) Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
21) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
22) Is away from home, either nights or on trips, more than previously.
23) His/her clothes smell different.
24) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
25) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy" and easily moved to anger.
26) You're getting hang-up phone calls.
27) He/she loses attention frequently.
28) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home, which may include "over-compensating" with children by buying them gifts or being over-enthusiastic..
29) Atypical erratic behavior or "flying off the handle."
30) Any other obvious signs such as the tell-tale lipstick on the collar - hiding laundry or doing it themselves when they didn't before, strange hair in the car, etc.
What do I do now?
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