30 Sure-Fire Signs that Your Partner is Cheating

Please keep in mind that your partner may be doing some of these things (like working out) and they can be totally innocent. Use your gut (and this information) wisely.

1) You are searching for information on this topic. This is a huge sign that your gut is telling you something. Confront your partner immediately, and get the truth. Before it devastates you and your family.
2) Birth control has become a higher priority than before.
3) Your partner stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you, and instead, is overly critical.
4) He or she is secretive about online activity or certain phone conversations.
5) He or she is spending more time on hygeine and appearance- keeping his/her nails done, aftershave/perfume, etc.
6) They embark upon a rigerous workout program.
7) They make secretive purchases or keep you from reviewing the finances.
8) Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible person you are).
9) He or she deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
10) He or she is accusatory – typically, people who are doing something wrong think that everyone else is too.
11) Hypothetical questions are raised, such as “do you think it’s possible to love more than one person at a time?
12) New underwear/lingerie is purchased.
13) Their wedding ring (or other jewelry associated with your relationship) is missing or misplaced more often.
14) Unexplained scratches or bruises are present.
15) Your partner suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
16) Or, he/she suddenly stops wanting to have sex with you.
17) Or, he/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.
18) Your partner is supposedly working a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
19) Your partner picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.
20) They show a sudden interest in a different type of music, food, or other cultural enticement.
21) They spend an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially after you have gone to bed.
22) They are away from home, either nights or on trips, more than before.
23) His/her clothes smell different.
24) The amount of money being deposited into the checking account drops off.
25) He or she seems less comfortable around you, or is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.
26) You’re getting hang-up phone calls.
27) He/she loses attention or daydreams frequently.
28) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home, which may include “over-compensating” with children by buying them gifts or being over-enthusiastic..
29) There is atypical erratic behavior or “flying off the handle.”
30) Any other obvious signs such as the tell-tale lipstick on the collar – hiding laundry or doing it themselves when they didn’t before, strange hair in the car, etc.

This is a brief collections of things that should raise a red flag. Please confront your partner as soon as possible and get the truth. Pick up a copy of The Science of Cheating today, an let us know how we can help.

Sincerely,

The Science of Cheating Team
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